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Self-Improvement | Tinder Reflections

The Harsh Reality: Most People Are Stupid

April 7, 2023 by spreadfire1

Most people are stupid. That’s not an insult but a fact. A fact that acts as an obstacle, an impeding factor both in dating and in life. Especially in dating, my counterparts remind me of that all too frequently. Considering … Read More

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Health | Self-Improvement

The bad habit of being offended

March 28, 2023 by spreadfire1

Some people are offended so easily. No matter what you say, they find a reason to be offended. You can walk on eggshells all day, to no avail. There will always be that one thing you shouldn’t have said, that … Read More

Self-Improvement | Tinder Reflections

The Evolution of Dating: How Technology is Changing the Way We Connect

January 31, 2023 by spreadfire1

Tinder is a tool Everyone can use it how they want. To find friends, a hiking partner, casual sex, hookups, short-term or long-term dating, a lifetime partner, the love of your life. And we can let potential matches know what … Read More

Health | Self-Improvement | Stories | Tinder Reflections

The Haunting Reality of Ghosting: Why It Happens and How to Cope

January 26, 2023 by spreadfire1

I met her on Tinder. We wanted to meet quickly without messaging back and forth for a long time. She canceled the first date on short notice, which I was okay with. Anything can happen. On the second date, it … Read More

Enlightenment | Epistemology | Self-Improvement | Tinder Reflections

Why Astrology Believers are Setting Themselves Up for Disappointment

January 24, 2023 by spreadfire1

You know what another turn-off is? Your zodiac sign. Not your particular sign, but the fact that you deemed it important enough to include in your Tinder profile at all. It falls into the same category as anti-vaxxers, I guess. … Read More

Self-Improvement | Tinder Reflections

Breaking the Rules: How to Find Love in an Artificial World

January 21, 2023 by spreadfire1

You’ve got a new match 😍😍😍 I’ve read this sentence hundreds of times. Comparatively rarely have I acted any further, in the form of a simple message. It’s nothing against the person I matched with. It’s not you, it’s me. … Read More

Self-Improvement | Tinder Reflections

Unvaccinated and Unloved: The Bias Against Anti-Vaxxers

January 19, 2023 by spreadfire1

Selina, 41, lives 267 kilometers away. We matched on Tinder six years ago without ever communicating. She’s beautiful on the outside. Judging by her profile text, she knows what she wants: only UNVACCINATED men !at least 1,78 m tall! living … Read More

Enlightenment | Self-Improvement | Stories | Tinder Reflections

From Sports Girl to Spiritual Seeker: A Transformative Journey

January 17, 2023 by spreadfire1

“Are you still searching or are you already living?”, initializes the profile text of Janett, 36. Her passions are Outdoors, Spirituality, Dogs, and Coffee. It seems we matched on Tinder 7 years ago but we never chatted there. Looking at … Read More

Self-Improvement | Stories | Tinder Reflections

Names With Faces: Swipe Right Bias Explained

January 16, 2023 by spreadfire1

Svenja, 35. Engineer. The oldest entry in my list of matches. Matched on October 3rd of 2014. Matched and never messaged. Lives 613 kilometers away now. How come – I’ll never know. She must have been within a radius of … Read More

Self-Improvement | Stories | Tinder Reflections

A Tinder Match 8 Years Later: Eerie Parasocial Reflections

January 15, 2023 by spreadfire1

Eight years is a long time. Relatively speaking. Seemingly enough time for Julia to leave her home, fall in love abroad, and return home again together with her partner. I don’t know who Julia is. Everything I know about her … Read More

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